Islam and women
In whatever form it is, it is honorable and respectable, and why not, when Allah Almighty sent the Holy Prophet (sws) as a "Prophet of Mercy" for all creatures,
The relationship between husband and wife is so important that a person sacrifices everything to fulfill it till death, sometimes even saying goodbye to his parents, this relationship is as beautiful and important as it is.
More than that, it is also very sensitive. If patience and endurance are not used in this relationship, then this relationship makes a person's life indigestible.
The woman in whatever form she is is worthy of respect and esteem, and why not, when Allah Almighty sent the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) as a "Prophet of Mercy" for all creatures, then the glory of the Holy Prophet Why shouldn't there be a shadow over this "delicate gender", which the world likens to something as delicate and delicate as a "glass"?
Why should a "woman" be deprived of your mercy and compassion if the worldly concessions are even greater with a soft and delicate thing?
It is unfortunate that the attitude and tragedy of this delicate gender of the present age is that it has made the woman a "candle party" instead of the "queen" of the house, to undermine her femininity and delicacy.
" The "adornment of the bazaar" and the "instrument" and "means" of the promotion of one's business, the order of the veil for a woman is, in fact, intended to keep her away from hard work and keep her indoors. Only responsibility should be assigned.
Allah Almighty has said in a book revealed to His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) about women: “Ashrohan Bal Ma'roof” (and spend well with these women).
How can we keep our spouse happy? The guidance of this question presents some important things in the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). If it is followed, this relationship will be like paradise for us in this world.
1. Choose beauty for your spouse.
Dress your partner beautifully, apply perfume.
"Allah Jameel Yahb Al-Jamal" Allah Almighty loves beauty.
Just as men want their wives to adorn them, so women want their husbands to adorn them.
Remember that Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to use a toothbrush when returning home and always liked good fragrance.
2. Choose a beautiful name for your spouse:
Use a beautiful name for your spouse. Allah's Apostle used to call his wives by names which he liked very much.
Call your spouse by the most beloved name, and avoid names that hurt their feelings.
3. Appreciate the merits:
Don't treat your spouse like a bee. In our daily lives we don't even think about the bee until it bothers us.
In the same way, sometimes a woman does not get the attention of her husband even after doing good deeds all day long, even if some mistake of hers attracts the attention of her husband. Don't do that, it's wrong.
Appreciate her strengths and focus on her strengths.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) appreciated the small virtues of all his wives.
4. Just ignore the mistakes.
If you see your spouse making a mistake, forgive him or her. The same method was adopted by the Holy Prophet (sws) that when he saw something inappropriate from the wives of the purified ones, he remained silent.
Very few Muslim men specialize in this style.
5. Smile at your spouse:
Whenever you see your spouse, smile and hug him often. Smiling is charity and your spouse is no different from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine what your life would be like if your spouse always saw you smiling.
Remember the ahaadeeth that when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) kissed his wife before going for prayers while he was fasting.
6. Thank you
Thank your spouse for all the work he or she does for you. Give thanks again and again, for example at dinner at home. She cooks for you, cleans the house and does dozens of other things.
And sometimes the only "compliment" she deserves is "there was less salt in the curry today." For God's sake! Don't do that Be grateful to him.
7. Keep your spouse happy
Ask your spouse to tell you about 10 things you did for him / her that will make him / her happy.
Then repeat these things for your spouse. It may be difficult to know what makes him happy. Don't speculate about it yourself, find out directly from your spouse and keep repeating such moments in your life.
8. Take care
Don't underestimate your partner's desires.
Relax her Sometimes husbands look down on their wives' desires. Don't do that The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) set an example for us in this incident that Hazrat Safiyya (ra) was weeping. She explained that the reason for this was that he had made her ride on a slow-moving camel. He wiped away their tears, comforted them and brought them (new) camels.
9. Make fun
Make fun of your spouse and make him or her happy. See how Allah's Apostle used to run in the desert with Hazrat Ayesha (RA).
When was the last time you talked to your wife like that?
10- Try to be better
Always remember the words of the Holy Prophet: “The best of you is the one who treats his family well.
And I am going to treat all of you better than my family. ”
These narrations show that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) dealt kindly with the woman, commanding her to be merciful with the cross, keeping in mind her gender delicacy, and putting a burden on her.
Forbade him, forbade him unintentionally He was crowned with honor and dignity out of humiliation, bestowed his rights in the form of mother, daughter-in-law, mother-in-law, wife, etc., his honor and dignity, his upbringing and supervision and care of heaven. He said that this was the style of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) with a delicate gender.
Lastly, don't forget to pray to God to make your marriage a success. God knows best.
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In whatever form it is, it is honorable and respectable, and why not, when Allah Almighty sent the Holy Prophet (sws) as a "Prophet of Mercy" for all creatures,
The relationship between husband and wife is so important that a person sacrifices everything to fulfill it till death, sometimes even saying goodbye to his parents, this relationship is as beautiful and important as it is.
More than that, it is also very sensitive. If patience and endurance are not used in this relationship, then this relationship makes a person's life indigestible.
The woman in whatever form she is is worthy of respect and esteem, and why not, when Allah Almighty sent the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) as a "Prophet of Mercy" for all creatures, then the glory of the Holy Prophet Why shouldn't there be a shadow over this "delicate gender", which the world likens to something as delicate and delicate as a "glass"?
Why should a "woman" be deprived of your mercy and compassion if the worldly concessions are even greater with a soft and delicate thing?
It is unfortunate that the attitude and tragedy of this delicate gender of the present age is that it has made the woman a "candle party" instead of the "queen" of the house, to undermine her femininity and delicacy.
" The "adornment of the bazaar" and the "instrument" and "means" of the promotion of one's business, the order of the veil for a woman is, in fact, intended to keep her away from hard work and keep her indoors. Only responsibility should be assigned.
Allah Almighty has said in a book revealed to His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) about women: “Ashrohan Bal Ma'roof” (and spend well with these women).
How can we keep our spouse happy? The guidance of this question presents some important things in the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). If it is followed, this relationship will be like paradise for us in this world.
1. Choose beauty for your spouse.
Dress your partner beautifully, apply perfume.
"Allah Jameel Yahb Al-Jamal" Allah Almighty loves beauty.
Just as men want their wives to adorn them, so women want their husbands to adorn them.
Remember that Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to use a toothbrush when returning home and always liked good fragrance.
2. Choose a beautiful name for your spouse:
Use a beautiful name for your spouse. Allah's Apostle used to call his wives by names which he liked very much.
Call your spouse by the most beloved name, and avoid names that hurt their feelings.
3. Appreciate the merits:
Don't treat your spouse like a bee. In our daily lives we don't even think about the bee until it bothers us.
In the same way, sometimes a woman does not get the attention of her husband even after doing good deeds all day long, even if some mistake of hers attracts the attention of her husband. Don't do that, it's wrong.
Appreciate her strengths and focus on her strengths.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) appreciated the small virtues of all his wives.
4. Just ignore the mistakes.
If you see your spouse making a mistake, forgive him or her. The same method was adopted by the Holy Prophet (sws) that when he saw something inappropriate from the wives of the purified ones, he remained silent.
Very few Muslim men specialize in this style.
5. Smile at your spouse:
Whenever you see your spouse, smile and hug him often. Smiling is charity and your spouse is no different from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine what your life would be like if your spouse always saw you smiling.
Remember the ahaadeeth that when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) kissed his wife before going for prayers while he was fasting.
6. Thank you
Thank your spouse for all the work he or she does for you. Give thanks again and again, for example at dinner at home. She cooks for you, cleans the house and does dozens of other things.
And sometimes the only "compliment" she deserves is "there was less salt in the curry today." For God's sake! Don't do that Be grateful to him.
7. Keep your spouse happy
Ask your spouse to tell you about 10 things you did for him / her that will make him / her happy.
Then repeat these things for your spouse. It may be difficult to know what makes him happy. Don't speculate about it yourself, find out directly from your spouse and keep repeating such moments in your life.
8. Take care
Don't underestimate your partner's desires.
Relax her Sometimes husbands look down on their wives' desires. Don't do that The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) set an example for us in this incident that Hazrat Safiyya (ra) was weeping. She explained that the reason for this was that he had made her ride on a slow-moving camel. He wiped away their tears, comforted them and brought them (new) camels.
9. Make fun
Make fun of your spouse and make him or her happy. See how Allah's Apostle used to run in the desert with Hazrat Ayesha (RA).
When was the last time you talked to your wife like that?
10- Try to be better
Always remember the words of the Holy Prophet: “The best of you is the one who treats his family well.
And I am going to treat all of you better than my family. ”
These narrations show that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) dealt kindly with the woman, commanding her to be merciful with the cross, keeping in mind her gender delicacy, and putting a burden on her.
Forbade him, forbade him unintentionally He was crowned with honor and dignity out of humiliation, bestowed his rights in the form of mother, daughter-in-law, mother-in-law, wife, etc., his honor and dignity, his upbringing and supervision and care of heaven. He said that this was the style of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) with a delicate gender.
Lastly, don't forget to pray to God to make your marriage a success. God knows best.
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